Secret of finding the best partner in a relationship.

 Secret of finding the best partner in a relationship.

Firstly, Go look out for the 100% person (most perfect) relationship builder and sustainer and that’s (Almighty God). 

Why? Incase you might run out of options in the manual you’re given, the creator has the best tools 🧰 to help. 

Secondly, do not expect a 100% partner. 

If you list 10 things you need in a partner. You might find 5/10. If you see 5. That’s a boost. 

Most times it’s 3/10. When you get committed and the creator is approving, you’ll see the other 7 will start coming in. 

But at the end you’ll see you will only have 7/10. Not the 10/10. There will still be a BUT to deal with. 

If you leave him/her because He/She is not 10/10. You will never see a 10. Because you yourself is not a 10. 

The COMPATIBILITY CALCULATION 

You’ll bring your own 6 and add to her 4. Or you both bring your 4-4.

If he’s 6 and you’re 4. That’s 10/20. Average of 5/10. Then you’ll both work to get at least 7,8 out of 10. 

If you’re 4 and she’s 4. 

That’s 4/10.

Don’t strive to be 8 and leave her at 3. It will slow you down. 

Work together to improve. 

Thirdly, Be more intentional and be decisive. 

Fine girls and boys can’t be exhausted, you are the one limited to the place you are. Once you travel you’ll see more. God created beautifully made in abundance. 

You will be the one to build your own beauty of her from your mind and heart and you build a proud man out of him. 

Lastly, Seek God when you’re running of options and don’t always run to people to give you advice.

Even when you do, make sure you sit down and check the manual for your own relationship.

What works for A might not work for B. 

In every advice you get, check the one that works for you. 

That’s why God is the ALFA and OMEGA of every long lasting, purposeful, peaceful,and  fulfilling relationship. 

YOU ARE A BLESSING FOR HER AND SHES YOUR BLESSING. 

God has blessed you to be fruitful so don’t make mistake that will change your fruitfulness to frustration. 

God bless. 

@Yemclem

2024